motives in marriage

Before a man will propose to a woman there is a motive behind the proposal. Naturally most people get into marriage to have kids while for some they want to spend the rest o their natural lives with the man/woman they love and cherish. Genuine motives in marriage will always see a marriage that is going through turbulent times survive the rigors of hardship. So the question is what are your motives in marriage?

While not trying to answer here for anyone it must be pointed out that whatever the motive of your getting into marriage the truth remains that you are into the institution called marriage and if it works out the better for you and your partner, in the event that it fails well you need not bend your head in shame, but reflect and ask the simple question where did I get it wrong?

So what is the motive that drove you into marriage? Is it that others are doing it, so it can work for me as well, is it that the man/woman that is your partner has got some treasure stacked away somewhere and if he/she passes on a large chunk of the booty will be yours and yours alone, or are you lonely and feeling left out of the party, so the best option is to agree to the next man/woman that comes along, were you once jilted and nearly died  and you feel the only way to escape is to marry again as soon as another Mr./Miss perfect comes along, is daddy/mommy giving me a hell of a time to get married to someone I don’t love because they are his/her business partners child. Whatever of the foregoing reasons you may tender the fact remains that if the motive behind what you call marriage is wrong then you can never find true happiness, which can not be bought even with all the money in the world.

Now have you ever wondered why most celebrities perform so well at the sliver screen but do very poor at home management? They are rated so low in marriage in fact they are so down below that many have wondered if they are not getting into marriage for the fun of amassing wealth from the partner when they divorce. Check the figures many celebrity marriages fail before the seven year mark set for all turn around in marriages and the reason they give often is that they are falling short of each other’s love and unable to continue, so the best thing to do is live separately, while filing for a break up of the marriage.

When motives are wrong, marriages and every other thing that is attached to it, tends to crumble and fail. So what difficulties are you having in your marriage or home? Why not check the motive behind what you are doing and if you find the motive wrong why not change that motive for a good one and enjoy happiness in your marriage and endeavor.